Gently Weaving New Pathways
Are you tired of people offering you magic bullets and quick fixes? Are you tired of linen pants and oversold expectations?
Me too.
What if I told you that everything you need for healing, is waiting, inside you, just below the surface
Your body is smart, capable, and waiting for your return.
Hi, Im Rogue.
My work is to guide you to increase your pleasure capacity as an accomplice in your practice.
Why might you want to work with me?
People come to me when they're stuck. Sometimes something in the past has a grip on us and we are tied down to it. It holds us back from pleasure or scares us away from sex, and keeps us from connecting with others.
We may disassociate, disappear, deny, or go numb, or all of the above.
My work is to help you gently tease it apart and come home to the wholeness that is your body.
'Nibble don't gorge.'
As Dr Resma Menakem says.
'Slowly, gently.'
As my Tantra teacher Devi Ward says.
We are not attuned to take in the overwhelming, the flood, of hurts past.
BUT, we are able to take little bites, day by day.
That is my work.
We humans heal in community. Generally, because our hurts happened in community, or were put upon us by systems at large (see patriarchy, racism, etc).
I hold the space. In the space you find more room, more capacity, to explore, nibble, dip your toe in and then come on back to dry land.
We do this in reps. Like building a muscle.
Whether through my guidance and by your hand (home-play) or my guidance and my hands (healing touch), we will move the needle and get the energy flowing again! This is gentle, creative, vulnerable, and courageous work.
I'm so glad you're here.
Whether you want to change your relationship to pleasure, move out of shame, or expand your sense of belonging and connection in the world, and let that ripple out to your sexuality, I’m well suited to help you along the way.
My variety of trauma informed practices can help your engine come powerfully back to life. This approach to sexuality is a diverse network of many in-roads to meet you right where you are.
I’m a human, and this is very human work. You’re right where you need to be.
About me:
I’m a queer, genderfucked sensual educator and tantric guide, a multi-ethnic performer, artist, and athlete. As such, I was fed up with Tantra being dominated by cis-het dudes in linen pants, and people spiritually bypassing very real worldly traumas. Queering Tantra is sensual guidance for the whole person and was founded to step outside the dominant societal norms of most sex and Tantra. The queering lens gives us more freedom and accessibility, for all bodies and sexualities.
I’ve been practicing kink for many years, sexually healing my own trauma along the way. I’m a certified Authentic Tantra practitioner of 8 years. My practice combines BDSM/kink, Tibetan Tantra, somatic awareness, breathwork, movement, and a number of other tools.
As a certified Athletic Trainer with a background in dance, combat sports, and rock climbing, I bring a unique mixture of play, practice, and praxis to all my work.
My Mission
My mission is a world full of empowered and self-actualized sexual beings. I envision conversations full of curiosity, had easily about ongoing desire and consent with our sexual partners. I see the world as a place of showing up to our lives playfully, aware of self, and able to communicate our needs and boundaries effectively.
My Goals
My goals are to provide clients with a robust toolkit to fit their lifestyle. Some form of movement, a practice of communication, self-touch/pleasure, and somatic awareness. Loosely outlined below: there are many ways to accomplish these goals.
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Get bodies moving!
Movement is integral to our being human, we are moving bodies. Some form of dance, sport, shaking, rolling, accessible blood-pumping is important. Stretching, wriggling, running or however you like to, MOVE!
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Communicate effectively and contemplate regularly.
Communicating where we are to our partners, friends, co-workers, practitioners etc, is a life ling practice. Speaking up for our body’s needs, our reassurances, concerns etc, opens the door to being present.
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Touch yourself for Pleasure!
Self-touch/pleasure practice is about cultivating a relationship to yourself. The longest lasting relationship you will ever have, and the one it is easiest to forget about. You deserve your own love and attention.
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Build body awareness!
Somatic awareness is being able to tap in and listen to what our bodies are telling us. Our bodies hold the stories of our lives, our tissues literally hold memories. Listening to what our bodies need if a lifelong practice.