Thoughtful. Adaptive.
Expansive.
My Approach to this Work/What the Process Might Look Like:
I like to start by setting goals so we have something to focus on!
We work together to get clear about what you want. This exploration should feel playful and abundant. We are working towards a sense of expansion of your current perspectives and to add a clear vision to your desired future.
(For example: you want to be able to orgasm on demand. We consider the long term eventuality, what we need to get there. Then I reach into my toolbox, and you reach deep into your body’s sense of knowing. Or, you have intermittent pain, numbness or discomfort, we tap into why that might be, explore some of it, and use touch and movement to help unwind).
Getting Clear
We pull from your experience and my deep toolbox: Tantra, meditation, kink/bdsm, trauma-informed healing practices, exercise science, movement, and so much more for a well-rounded approach to break through whatever might be in your way. Some of this work is tender, vulnerable, and challenging: I always hold safe, non-judgmental space.
This is the juice of our time together. We come up with homework (or as I like to call it: homeplay) you like, you try it at home, report back to me, and we adjust as necessary. This is also where some touch training might occur.
(Maybe you have wanted to try something but needed a little guidance or handholding. Maybe you’re longing for a new practice suggestion. Maybe you’d like to know the fundamental steps to learning how to separate orgasm and ejaculation-shout out to my sperm producers!)
Breaking Through
Together, we write your personal curriculum to sexual, intimate, and relational liberation. Living free is not a destination, but an ongoing integrated process of being who you are.
I know this can sound hand-wavy. But it is so real. Something is happening in your body. We swing in and out of differing amounts of capacity, different relationships, and different desires. This is an ongoing unfolding who YOU are. This is where you put pedal to the metal, rubber to the road, and get after it!
I take this into account and we work together to come up with an achievable, manageable, home play work load to get you to where you want to be!
Some clients prefer to go through my 6 session packages and then follow up as necessary every month, 3 months, or 6 months if desired. This is where we continue to adjust and explore what comes up for you from our work together.
Living Free
Some Things We Might Talk About:
Sexual function, orgasm, physical sensation, pleasure reclamation.
Also, kink, semen retention, trauma healing, gender identity, body dysphoria.
We might get into relational aspects of relationship styles (polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, sexual intimacy with a partner, etc
We might also talk about Buddhism (where these Tantric Practices originated, meditation/contemplation, exercise, movement, and doable steps).
Who I Work With
All Bodies
I work with all bodies, all genders, disabled and not disabled, all races.
My practice is anti-racist because intersectionality is the way to liberate all beings.
I work with fat bodies, skinny bodies, athletic bodies. Trans, queer, gay, lesbian, straight and cis bodies.
I work with individuals and I especially adore working with couples.
I also do workshops/groups. If you have an idea, or would like to share this work with a group, just ask!
Whether you’re queer, straight, cis, trans, non-binary, or something/nothing/everything in between— my goal is to give you the tools you need to build a powerfully sensual and awakened relationship with yourself, the universe, and everything in it.
The ripple effects from awakened sensuality can cause our lives to shift; to allow our experience to be enjoyable, pleasurable, and fun; all bodies deserve this.
